I wanted to wait until after the first trimester in case something bad like a miscarriage happened. But we're at 13 weeks and everything looks good.
It was a big surprise and we definitely didn't plan it, but it's happening and we're making the best of it. We've told our families and our closest friends, and we're not announcing it via facebook or anything, we're just letting people kind of...figure it out, I guess.
Since we've gotten over the shock of it, we've actually become relatively excited about it.
But a fair warning...this just goes to show you how ineffective condoms can be. We used 'em, happened anyway. (She wasn't on the pill; she's a very devout Catholic and the whole "having sex before you're married" thing was as far from...[read more]