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Alex enjoys iced tea, bull-fighting, making out, drinking rum, Michael Vick, spending money, watching Manchester United score goals, writing, and seeing his name in print. Vote Ron Paul.
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04:44 PM on 01/15/11
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Snagging Zion Shoulders Homie You Kno That Bitch Want It
04:35 PM on 01/15/11
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You And Your Long-ass Arms
08:05 PM on 01/11/11
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haha thank you sir. I wouldn't even call it avoiding it seeing that it was pure luck. Still hilarious nonetheless.
11:45 PM on 01/09/11
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So me and my GF kinda got caught banging in her uncles house this weekend. We stayed there with her aunt, uncle, mom and dad. For the night all the adults left and went out to a restaurant and left me and Ash at the house. We fooled around and eventually ended up doing it but about 3 minutes in we hear everyone come home. We were in the basement so luckily we had time to get clothed but as soon as we get out of the bedroom her mom runs down the stairs, see's us and then runs into the bathroom. We figured she had to know because it was very obvious what was going on considering Ashley was carrying her bra in her hand. Well her mom had too much to drink and had ran into the bathroom to throw up. Apparently she doesn't remember much from the night before besides drinking too many long islands and throwing up. Looks like I have escaped another close one hahaha
12:01 PM on 01/09/11
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Sounds really good. Glad it went well for you. I won't ask whether you're thinking about pursuing her again or not because questions like that never go well. You keep doing you.
11:31 AM on 01/09/11
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She was cool with it? I'm kind of surprised.
10:45 AM on 01/09/11
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I want to hear this.
01:18 PM on 01/07/11
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people get all mad n shit

just don't want a paper traaaaiiillllll
12:37 PM on 01/07/11
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makin' errrrbody so mad yo
09:33 AM on 01/03/11
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Taylor or no Taylor AP.net still loves the shit out of you
I've been with my GF now for almost 2 years and I can't imagine what it would be like without her so I know where you are coming from but you just have to realize stuff like this happens....it doesn't make it any easier but just to look towards the future and do what you can to mend the wounds.

and don't forget, PL is here for you
10:12 PM on 01/02/11
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1) I remember you telling me about them and figured they had something to do with this. What can you do, though, right?

2) I remember him too, you posted a bit about him. He's ugly as shit, fat, pathetic, and stupid. I don't understand how girls get guilted into feeling bad about fellows like him after they've been apart for ages. But then again, I don't know how they wind up dating in the first place, so.

3) This is where it gets interesting. I remember AP, but I moved to Canada before I ever considered taking any such courses. Given the chance I probably wouldn't have anyway, but uh anyway this isn't about me, it's about her and I'd like to talk about her for a moment.

She's got a lot to do and I'm just wondering how mature she is, really. The word maturity has always had a painful sting for me, because it was tossed around a lot in my middle school and early high school years that I was really immature and that was something for a lot of kids to go on, so I've never liked to revisit those terms, but since (don't worry this is going to swing back to Taylor) I've been in university I find myself revisiting them nonetheless when trying to make sense of the surroundings and it's struck me that many people are actually rather immature about lots of things. Stress ties into that and I just wonder about someone who's got so much going on in her life that when it comes time to cut something out, she cuts out love. It's pretty indicative of a somewhat immature psyche. I don't know if people are taught enough to take things in stride. I can't claim to be a really mature individual without sounding like a complete buffoon but it seems to me that what she needs to do is to stop for just a minute and filter out what she really wants in her life. She's what, 17? 18? She doesn't need to be stressed out. She needs to understand that she can take her life in stride and should only cut out things she really doesn't enjoy. I mean, I don't know her, but this is my closest estimate here. You seem like you've got your head on pretty straight and I really think you got the short end of the stick here and that she's been pretty unfair. It's silly to come out and be all "I can't see you anymore" just because one has a lot going on. What she needed to do instead of breaking up with you was sit down with a pen and paper and work out what she wants in her life.

4) The way I see caring for another, or love is that it's there until it fades. It doesn't sound like this has faded... maybe by the time university swung around for her it would have, or the long-distance thing would have caused it. But really, you treasure each day until it fades, and when it fades, you treasure the memories and move on. I think this is what you mean by "not meant to be" as well.
09:35 PM on 01/02/11
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thank you, and also, don't sleep on it. stay up all night, if you want or need to. it's only the world's pansies that say "sleep on it" when somebody's dealing with an issue like yours. your mind has got to process the entire thing and thinking about it is the only way you'll come out of this happy. what was her reason, or did she just say she needed to?
08:58 PM on 01/02/11
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Alright, the first thing to remember is that just because she's gone, the changes she's inspired don't need to go away too. It sounds like you're saying she changed you for the better, so take that, and keep getting better, and eventually putting your all into everything you do will lead you to someone even better.

This said, you are still completely entitled to confront the pain head on. It hurts and you hurt and you need to feel that, explore it, and understand it until you're ready to move on. If you need to talk to somebody, I'm here, and I'm sure the other old bro-circlers would be glad to help you out too.

Also it might be beneficial to pursue some closure on your breakup with her; from your relation of the story it seems like it was a rather sudden phone break-up and you don't have the inside track on why it occurred so there are ways you could confront Taylor about that along the line that would probably bring you considerable peace of mind.

I'm sorry this happened to you; your relationship with Taylor was sort of the paradisiacal bedrock of many of our romantic imaginations here: you were kind of our Clark Gable and Carol Lombard. Just so you know, Gable was still the man after that relationship ended, and mate, so are you.
05:53 PM on 01/02/11
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exactly right. besides, what an interesting way to begin 2011. happy new year yo
12:03 AM on 01/02/11
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holy shit, dude. you alright?
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March 3, 1992 (22)
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North Davidson High School
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UNC Charlotte
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