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princessjinifer 01/01/13 05:03 PM

I need a little bit of help..if you don't mind reading (kinda lengthy)
 
I will start of by introducing the people I will talking about

Jessica: my ex-girlfriend, terrible terrible relationship. too much pain, worry, just, ugh. I cannot believe I lasted as long as I did.
Michelle: my ex-girlfriend's ex. a really good friend of mine. she has helped me a whole lot recently, no feelings involved with her, as she has a boyfriend. and, because I just don't see her that way.

Jessica and I finally parted ways on Christmas day, it relieved me so much, it had felt like a giant burden had been lifted. I don't know, it was a good feeling. Michelle talked to me through it all, and it is mainly the reason I haven't had a meltdown since then. Michelle and I have been talking non-stop since Christmas Eve. Now some of the conversations between me and Michelle have included how she is upset/pissed off that Jessica put me through all that she did, and that she didn't want me talking to her anymore. Wellll, last night (New Year's) I called Jessica, on FaceTime. I knew I shouldn't have, but I did. It was nice talking to her again, getting to see her and hear her voice. I fell asleep feeling alright.
I messaged Michelle today and told her what I did, because Jessica told me that she was going to tell her. So I decided to tell her myself so things didn't look bad.
I now feel like I have betrayed Michelle by talking to Jessica last night when she has told me not to.. and now Michelle doesn't seem interested to talk to me anymore, as if she is upset at me. She claims she isn't, but I have a hard time believing that..

Jessica and I haven't spoken at all since Christmas, except for that call last night. We don't plan on talking either.

What do you think?
Should I be worrying as much as I should? or not?
I don't have many good friends, not anyone like Michelle, so her being upset at me is not a good thing at all.. :/ it is killing me on the inside..

jrayrocks9191 01/01/13 05:09 PM


marieeboxx 01/01/13 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by jrayrocks9191 (Post 117205952)


This

princessjinifer 01/01/13 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by jrayrocks9191 (Post 117205952)


that made me smile. :)

White 01/01/13 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by marieeboxx (Post 117206132)
This


This.

leftapart 01/01/13 06:08 PM

So you dated a lesbian... And then you tried to get with her best friend/former lover?

E=MCHAMMER 01/01/13 07:26 PM


incognitojones 01/01/13 07:53 PM

you worry too much man.

StepsInADance 01/01/13 07:53 PM

You're a shoe-in for a threesome. You better not fuck this up.

barkjon 01/01/13 07:54 PM

anal

o wait

princessjinifer 01/01/13 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by leftapart (Post 117207692)
So you dated a lesbian... And then you tried to get with her best friend/former lover?


yes and no. yes I dated a lesbian (she ended up being one in the end) and then no, I didn't try to get with her. I just became good friends with her. I don't want to date her either, she doesn't want to date me. she is in a pretty serious relationship so yeah.

princessjinifer 01/01/13 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by StepsInADance (Post 117210912)
You're a shoe-in for a threesome. You better not fuck this up.


:p this actually was talked about. until I told Michelle what Jessica did to me, so Michelle changed her mind and said that she doesn't want to have a threesome with her anymore. But threesomes have still been in the talks.

princessjinifer 01/01/13 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by incognitojones (Post 117210892)
you worry too much man.


I figured so. Anyway to change that?

princessjinifer 01/01/13 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by E=MCHAMMER (Post 117210012)


Thanks. I liked that.

incognitojones 01/01/13 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by princessjinifer (Post 117211752)
I figured so. Anyway to change that?

admitting you have a problem is the first step to fixing it.

looking up the second step is the second step