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10:30 AM on 12/11/12 
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met a girl online and we texted for a week, and then we then met and had a real good time.we didnt make out or do anything sexual, we just talked and hung out and I gave her a big hug when we went our ways. We continued texting and she would text me while i was working saying "i miss you" or" please get off work!"...she also said i make her smile and that I was a sweet guy and couldnt wait to see me again.It looked like we were gonna be dating. we had planned on meeting twice the next week

Well I found out she met another guy and was interested in him. She was saying she had no idea what to do because she felt horrible about the situation.

well last night she let me know that she was gonna see the other guy. she said they just had a better chemisty than her and i. she said we had a good chemistry but just not as good, and that it was easier for her to see him(he lives in the same town, i'm 20 mins apart)

she said she was sorry and felt bad. i told her it was her choice and no hard feelings

and i'm not mad at her but i feel like crap. pretty much she told me"i like him better than you" i feel like i'm a failure

without a doubt, one of the lowest feeling ever
10:32 AM on 12/11/12 
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Girl seems like she is being pretty damn classy about the whole thing. Sometimes people have to make tough decisions about this kind of the thing. The girl acknowledged that and rather than stringing you along gave you the truth. appreciate that.
11:19 AM on 12/11/12 
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Yeah, I didn't mind reading your post, but I'd much rather read other threads.
11:25 AM on 12/11/12 
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Girl seems like she is being pretty damn classy about the whole thing. Sometimes people have to make tough decisions about this kind of the thing. The girl acknowledged that and rather than stringing you along gave you the truth. appreciate that.

she was classy about it but it still sucks

it seemed like we were pretty damn close to making it offical

makes ya think "what could i have done different"
11:44 AM on 12/11/12 
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Just because this girl preferred someone else over you, doesn't mean all girls will have the same reaction. There are other girls out there that will be a better match for you.
11:56 AM on 12/11/12 
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Welcome to life.
12:03 PM on 12/11/12 
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12:22 PM on 12/11/12 
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Shit luck bro, but as Jesus once said 'Fuck It'
12:41 PM on 12/11/12 
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At least she didn't pick and fuck a 40 year old man over you.

but I'm sorry man. On to the next one.
01:12 PM on 12/11/12 
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01:14 PM on 12/11/12 
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Shame, but good for her for ticking pretty much all of the boxes as to how to ideally go about doing it.
01:33 PM on 12/11/12 
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boohoo, so what, get over it, that's life. there are plenty of other girls on okcupid or craigslist or whatever site you're using.
04:31 PM on 12/11/12 
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At least she didn't pick and fuck a 40 year old man over you.

but I'm sorry man. On to the next one.
Came into this thread thinking exactly that.
05:50 PM on 12/11/12 
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Not nearly as bad as I was expecting. Shit happens. Move on.
06:12 PM on 12/11/12 
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I know that feel. I was dating a guy for over a year and then he left me for another girl lol, so yeah, believe me, that shit sucks. But now I've found someone who actually does prefer me. It feels like the end of the world and like you aren't good enough, but there's gonna be another girl out there who thinks you're the bee's knees, so keep your chin up.



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