let me get this straight. Trombone player leaves phone in cab (not weird), random guy finds phone (normal), guy takes phone (still pretty normal, shitty, but thats our world), then uses the apps on it (dumb, but curiosity is a bitch). now here is where i get lost.
he uses the guy who the phone belongs to's profile on a dating site expecting to meet and date women in person?
and in return, the trombone player thought it was a good idea to invite this guy over to his home? why not meet somewhere that you don't happen to sleep at?
he had a nice selection of nearby parks to chose from.
but then again, being in a ska band is creepy to me to begin with. it's like world music without a country to claim it.