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11:00 AM on 01/08/13 
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neilishere
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I suck at online dating. I either spend way to much time talking instead of wanting to meet up or I move to fast

Or I come off as so boring and dull. Can someone please give tips!

Especially girls.

I know all girls are different but what sets a guy apart?

Humor?
01:32 PM on 01/08/13 
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Crackbaby
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Just send them pictures of your dick. We all know chicks fall for that.
02:05 PM on 01/08/13 
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fishguts182
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watch catfish (both the movie and tv show) and do what those people have done
02:50 PM on 01/08/13 
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cococrisp20
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If it's possible for you, try meeting women at social gatherings as opposed to on the computer.
03:21 PM on 01/08/13 
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Bryan Mac
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Don't be weird.
04:07 PM on 01/08/13 
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leftapart
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Well.. you gotta get to know them first. They need to feel comfortable before you just ask to meet up and shit. Instead of you doing the talking, switch it up a bit and ask them questions, let them talk about themselves. Fin.
04:13 PM on 01/08/13 
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Well.. you gotta get to know them first. They need to feel comfortable before you just ask to meet up and shit. Instead of you doing the talking, switch it up a bit and ask them questions, let them talk about themselves. Fin.

He said it perfectly. This is exactly what my boyfriend did and we've been together almost a year and a half.
04:25 PM on 01/08/13 
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suicidalmoose
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you should say you're related to Ryan Gosling, I think they fall for that too!
04:51 PM on 01/08/13 
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CaryJS
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There's no such thing as sucking at online dating, only sucking at dating.
08:03 PM on 01/08/13 
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Bryan Mac
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I really only ever sent "wanna makeout?" okcupid messages and I got laid a looooooooot.
05:54 AM on 01/09/13 
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XenoAbe
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I know all girls are different but what sets a guy apart?

A guy that can talk to and ask out a girl in real life.
06:49 AM on 01/09/13 
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AntiCorporate
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Talk to them, don't be a creep and having similar general interests help.

Don't talk to them online toooo much before meeting, because then they get used to your online persona and have expectations of that's who you are. You have to get to know them in person before wasting months chatting online, realizing when you meet them you are someone totally different (or vice versa). But chat them up online so you can get a feel if you have any chemistry...and figure out if they're an ax murderer.

Did the online dating thing for a while...and I've landed myself in an awesome 3 year relationship. Note:You will meet a lot of duds.
07:28 AM on 01/09/13 
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StayFaithful
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Don't do online dating.
09:16 AM on 01/09/13 
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drat!
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Don't put the pussy on a pedestal.
09:25 AM on 01/09/13 
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You're young to be doing the online thing. Get out there, meet people, be social! Don't spend your 20s in front of a computer. A friend of mine was on Match.com for over a year, and all the guys she met up with were either boring duds or complete assholes. She ended up meeting her current boyfriend (of several years now) at a show we went to. I'm not saying that everyone you'll meet in person is going to be a winner - there are assholes and dullards everywhere - but you'll get a better and more immediate feel for the chemistry when meeting someone in person.

I'm not trying to stigmatize online dating. It works for some people, but it doesn't seem to be working for the OP. Maybe it's time to try a new tactic.



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