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12:09 PM on 11/03/09 
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guacadoggie
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Where does one draw the line when it comes to interfering with someone's relationship?

The other day I went to my dad's house for dinner; he also had his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years and her four kids over. After dinner my little sister asked if she could speak to me in her room. She showed me her string of im's with this 17 year old girl who's mother was dating my dad. Apparently they've been dating for four months while he was also dating his other girlfriend, whom I like and respect very much.

So, this is where my question arises: should I tell his girlfriend? I don't feel my dad deserves her...
12:23 PM on 11/03/09 
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Kozzy333
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Snitch.
12:29 PM on 11/03/09 
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4N6 science
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stay out of that train wreck.
12:41 PM on 11/03/09 
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argg_xo
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He's dating the daughter too? I'm lost.
12:54 PM on 11/03/09 
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AndrewIcex
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Hmm I have no idea, tough situation.

Maybe, tell him that you know all about his game first?
12:58 PM on 11/03/09 
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Urglegrew
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Originally Posted by AndrewIcexView This Post
Hmm I have no idea, tough situation.

Maybe, tell him that you know all about his game first?


agreed, just tell him you know and to just end his relationship with the new girl or you'll tell. Then hopefully he will fess up, and maybe they could just get over it.
01:49 PM on 11/03/09 
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wendjiqn
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Originally Posted by argg_xoView This Post
He's dating the daughter too? I'm lost.
He's dating the little sister's friends mom as well as his girlfriend. I think.
01:55 PM on 11/03/09 
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alice+interiors
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Sounds like this 'sister's friend' is setting you guys up for a beautiful prank. Make sure you have proof before acting on this..
02:03 PM on 11/03/09 
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Bi11 Lumburgh
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don't step on the mans game, you'll be lucky if you have game like that at his age, only for your own son to cock block you, F that
02:14 PM on 11/03/09 
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Originally Posted by Bi11 LumburghView This Post
don't step on the mans game, you'll be lucky if you have game like that at his age, only for your own son to cock block you, F that

Haha fo sho.

No definitely do not bring this up to the girlfriend first. I would ask your dad about it.
02:18 PM on 11/03/09 
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BBScience
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You have no business messing with your father's personal life. I mean if he was cheating on your own mother, mabye, but this is just a girlfriend. It's none of your business imo.

If anything, be an adult about it...and talk to your dad like a man. Don't take the word of some random 16 year old girl who you don't even know.
02:31 PM on 11/03/09 
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Tell the girlfriend. If you don' tell her now, she'll end up looking like a fool in the end. Spare her the trauma. I think you should probably talk to your dad first though.
02:33 PM on 11/03/09 
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stay out of it, it's not really your place. cheating sucks, but when it's all said and done, she's just going to be your dad's ex and he's still going to be your dad. you've got to live with your dad the rest of your life, don't make him resent you for whatever reason.
02:38 PM on 11/03/09 
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SincerelyMe
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Not your place; stay out of it. Nothing good will come of you getting involved.
02:45 PM on 11/03/09 
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zachff
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Talk to your dad.



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