im just now out of my first relationship ever. given that i'm 16, and it was with a 14 year old girl it's a bit sad indeed. she broke up with me. it lasted about a month.
I was familiar with who she was when I met her at our School's Winter Carnival and we instantly REALLY hit it off. I gave her my aim and we almost instantly became best friends. About two weeks later we were talking about the people we like and being blind to the possibility i got out of her that she really liked me. She practically begged for me to give her a chance. about two weeks later i decided to go out with her because i liked her.
The first week wasnt really anything special, i was still trying to get over myself for having a GF in the first place, etc. The second week was the same, but the relationship was basically a friendship. Knowing this, I thought I would have to try to break up with her... but the third week changed my mind. She kissed me for the first time (which was also my first kiss) and it felt so right. I don't know what about it changed my mind but it changed it really quick! I really started to like her
and week 4 i thought that it was really becoming serious. We couldnt spend valentimes together and she was too sick to go to school monday or tuesday, so i hadnt seen her for a few days when she went on aim and broke up with me
she cited that she wasnt "emotionally mature" enough to be in a relationship. it sounded like a croc of shit at the time, so i got skeptical and i tried to change her mind. that didnt work. then she told me she didnt like me anymore and i told her i couldnt trust her because it was all fucking fine two days before. that apparently hurt her, but i was hurt worse. I was crying on and off for about 24 hours.
apparently that really freaked her out, so i pretty much pestered a mutual friend so i wouldnt get stalkery... i talked to a lot of people i shouldnt have like her (practically) best friend and her sister... and talking to her sister sent her over the edge. apparently she was cool with being my friend until then but that put her over the edge and made her "fucking terrified"
but days later... I'm insanely happy. there's not really an explanation, i just am :)