yeah... this whole break up thing fucking sucks. more for me than for her, since she's not in love, and i still am. it's a bitch. it sucks knowing that she's probably rebounding, and i have too much heart to rebound because i'd feel like i was using them out of spite or something.
i don't know how to get over someone who i still love, lives with my brother, and still want to be friends with. fuck!
I broke up with my gf a month ago, and I wasn't in love and she still was. It still sucked for me. I still haven't done anything with any chick, because it's hard to even get back into the swing of being single. She probably isn't out rebounding already as she is probably having trouble with the whole thing as well.
As 11:11 said, just spend time improving yourself now that you're able to just deal with your own stuff. Since my break up I've started working out, hanging out with friends more often, meeting new people, etc. All of these things that I couldn't do while I was with her I've gotten back into doing and I absolutely love being able to do whatever the hell I want. Certainly you're in a different position than I was in, but if anything just think of it as a way to make yourself an even more eligible man than you were with her. I'm sure my gf has noticed that I'm now a happier, more in shape, and more social person than I was with her. But more importantly, I notice it, and it makes me happy to know that I'm able to make myself so much better off on my own.
Like I said before, one day at a time. This isn't something that you're going to get over overnight, there are going to be good days and there are going to be bad days. You've got people who care about you in real life, and we're here to talk to as well. You're going to survive, and you'll come out of it a better person than you were before. Just give it some time!