AbsolutePunk.net
   Username
Password
Eisley News
Hint: Have a news tip? Submit us news.
Eisley
Inside AP.net

Sherri Dupree-Bemis Blogs About Eisley and...

Posted by: Thomas Nassiff (08/24/12)
Sherri Dupree-Demis of Eisley has posted a blog titled "A cry to fans for peace regarding Paramore vs Eisley." Read it below.
BlogI can’t believe I’m about to address this, but….Wow…I think I have to..Because you would never believe how weary I am of the Paramore vs Eisley stuff still going on all these years later. I still can’t get on Tumblr without something popping up regarding our two bands in some sort ‘them vs us’ sort of way.

I don’t want to be the girl from Paramore, she does not want to be me, I am not “trying to dress like her”, she is not ‘trying to dress’ like me, I am not trying to “have her hair” (btw, have you seen her hair? I am pretty sure it’s orange and I’ve never had orange hair) AND vise versa! Last time I checked the two of us had COMPLETELY different fashion senses as well. From what I know of her, Williams is very into the ‘rocker/punk chic’ look whereas I am strictly a vintage-dresses-whimsical-girlie kind of chic.

So, we both dye our hair? Is that what it is?? I started dying my hair when I was 13. Dyed it a dark purple/red. Since then I was hooked…and I’ve been doing it ever since. This was all before either Eisley or Paramore were even formed…ALSO, Pretty sure the whole rest of the world is dying their hair crazy colors too. It’s pretty much all there is on Tumblr these days. Purple, Pink, Red, Blue, Yellow….Everyone’s doing it and it doesn’t mean we’re trying to ‘be’ like somebody else or ‘be cool’…It’s just REALLY FREAKIN’ FUN. I mean, have you tried it?? Trust me. I’m pretty sure that’s why ol’ H.W. does it too. Because she knows it’s REALLY FREAKIN’ FUN TOO.

ALSO, PLEASE let me reiterate…for the record: I DO NOT “hate” Paramore! I do not hate Hayley Willams! I seriously barely know the girl and I don’t even listen to their band…Therefore, you can smartly deduce that I neither want to be, nor do I hate her.

(PS. let it be noted that I don’t listen to them not for all the reasons you people seem to think, it’s just simply not my favorite style of music….and that’s OK!! They seem to be doing really well and that’s awesome because more chic-fronted bands should do well in the music scene!)

Ok, So, Yes, I was married to her current BF for like 2 minutes…similarities end there. Those two fell in love and would you believe it?»>I’m happy for them!!! I’m SO super happy it all happened because I later found someone who was REALLY made for me as well!! AND we’ve been married 3.5 years and have a baby on the way.

EVERYBODY WINS! :) :) :)

Annnd……did I mention this all happened over 5 years ago?

AND WE’RE ALL OVER IT! HOORAY!…so, good news..you can be too! YAY!!!! :-D

But seriously…It’s pretty amazing…5 years and people are STILL re-hashing all this weird stuff and making it SUPER dark. Guys…you’re only hurting yourself by spreading so much weird, dark, putrid hatred about things you know NOTHING about. We’re both just simple, totally regular chics in bands, who love our lives, love our dudes and are passionate about what we do; Which is, making music for all of YOU guys. There’s no reason to keep comparing/and/or hating on both of our bands because of some personal things that happened in our pasts so long ago that none of us even think about any more because we’ve moved so far on.

It’s so incredibly not worth anyone’s time or energy to dwell on, much less to hold that kind of hatred in your hearts and make judgements about people you don’t even know. It’s kind of hilarious but mostly It’s extremely sad and kinda breaks me heart knowing that this post is basically pointless and people will think/say/do/feel whatever they want about Paramore and Eisley…but I felt like I needed to say something because It’s been on my mind. You can listen to both of our bands and it’s OK. We are just groups of people doing what we love most and that’s making music.

So ROCK ON Paramore! And ROCK ON Eisley. We’re all so completely blessed to get to do this for a living and have fans that support us! I just want everyone to get along. I know that sounds old-fashioned and silly…but why should it??! It’s the truth.

AND we’ve all literally all moved on…So, I feel safe speaking for everyone involved that…You can too.

ps. for those who have no idea what I’m talking about…please, for your sake, keep it that way. Ignorance is bliss!

love to you ALL,
Sherri Bemis
    
 
Displaying posts 1 - 15 of 184
03:37 PM on 08/24/12
#2
anamericangod
Offline
User Info.
anamericangod's Avatar
Why are people so fucking stupid?
03:38 PM on 08/24/12
#3
seimagery
Regular Member
Offline
User Info.
seimagery's Avatar
This reads like a high school girl's blog.
03:38 PM on 08/24/12
#4
Feenucks
Majority Bones
Offline
User Info.
Feenucks's Avatar
Wasn't aware Paramore vs. Eisley was a thing. =/
03:39 PM on 08/24/12
#5
anamericangod
Offline
User Info.
anamericangod's Avatar
This reads like a high school girl's blog.
You're giving high schoolers far too much credit.
03:40 PM on 08/24/12
#6
herestoyoufla
Still starin' down the sun
Offline
User Info.
herestoyoufla's Avatar
Wasn't aware Paramore vs. Eisley was a thing. =/
ignorance is bliss, haha.
03:42 PM on 08/24/12
#7
Full Effect Ed
Nonstop Disco Powerpack
Offline
User Info.
Full Effect Ed's Avatar
Paramore vs Eisley because Chad's been with both chicks?
03:43 PM on 08/24/12
#8
Jake Jenkins
https://twitter.com/jakej654
Online
User Info.
Jake Jenkins's Avatar
why the fuck would she even post this


she's turning into max
03:47 PM on 08/24/12
#9
emilyonthecoast
Regular Member
Offline
User Info.
emilyonthecoast's Avatar
I had no idea there was any drama or that she was married to Chad until I read this. Counterproductive?...
03:48 PM on 08/24/12
Manufactured Dreams
Fabricated Revolution
Offline
User Info.
Manufactured Dreams's Avatar
This is all common sense but some people are really stupid and need to be told. Anyway, love Para more and I just recently started getting into Eisley. I wish nothing but good things for both bands.
03:49 PM on 08/24/12
crf1895
get kinda awesome
Offline
User Info.
crf1895's Avatar
Plays in one of the most important bands of the last decades, banged two of the hottest and most desired girls in the music industry.

I'd kill to have a 15 minute chat with Chad. I'd come out as a better man.
03:49 PM on 08/24/12
sickydicky
outlander!
Offline
User Info.
sickydicky's Avatar
reading that just made me think of the two of them in a sex video together or something. dunno why
03:49 PM on 08/24/12
mr_raccoon
UᴼᴥᴼU
Offline
User Info.
mr_raccoon's Avatar
*wonders if mama DuPree will show up on AP again like she did a few years ago*

But anyways, I don't think Sherri has much to gain by bringing this sort of thing up
03:56 PM on 08/24/12
mr_raccoon
UᴼᴥᴼU
Offline
User Info.
mr_raccoon's Avatar
Plays in one of the most important bands of the last decades, banged two of the hottest and most desired girls in the music industry.

I'd kill to have a 15 minute chat with Chad. I'd come out as a better man.
He also dated Kelly Osbourne too (3rd paragrapgh)

http://www.people.com/people/article...139587,00.html
03:56 PM on 08/24/12
nineinchsin
Don't take it seriously
Offline
User Info.
nineinchsin's Avatar
I wasn't aware there was an Eisley vs. Paramore deal. I mean, I knew Sherri was married to dickwad for a bit but that's really the only "connection" I was aware of. If I was Sherri, I'd be fed up with this kind of immature bullshit too though and I can understand why she had to drop an open letter on the heads of the moronic tweens that worship Paramore.

P.S. I love Eisley and have been known to enjoy Paramore from time to time. But there are some stupid ass Paramore fans. Stupid. Ass.
Options
Related News Stories
Buy the Music

NEWS, MUSIC & MORE
Search News
Release Dates
Exclusives
Best New Music
Articles
CONNECT
Submit News
Forums
Contests
Mobile Version
AP.net Logos
HIDDEN TREASURES
AbsolutePunk Podcast
Free Music
Sports Forum
Technology Forum
Recommendations
INFORMATION
Advertising
Contact Us
Copyright Policy
Terms of Service
Privacy Policy
FOLLOW
Twitter | Facebook | RSS
PropertyOfZack
UnderTheGun
Purevolume
Chorus.fm | @jason_tate