OP, I have nothing to offer aside from my sincere condolences. It is your birthday, though. Go to, like, Applebee's or something, tell them it's your birthday, and get a free cake or meal or whatever it is they do.
Lol at Apple Bees. If my people took me there for my birthday id think I was poor.
In all honesty, I don't think what I said is worse than him making light of/joking at the fact that OP had a close friend overdose. What you're doing is online ignorance. Grow up.