I can relate to this. I lost my mom a little over two weeks ago to cancer. My boyfriend of almost a year and a half has been nothing but wonderful to me, trying to help in any way that he can but I've done nothing but push him away. I'm upset, I'm sad, I'm angry and I've been taking it out on him. For no reason at all. We had even talked about him giving me some space while I'm going through this just so I can clear my head. You'd think that at a time like this I'd want him around and would want to have him to talk to, but it's not. I've told him that I can't give him the attention and affection that he deserves right now because I'm not myself. So maybe it's best you give her some time. Try moving forward with things when she's in a better state of mind.
First of all I'm incredibly sorry about your mom. I can't even imagine what you are going through. But thank you for replying. All of the things you said you did or feel are things she told me she's feeling. I guess space and time is what it's going to take. I hope things work out with you and your boyfriend though. He sounds like a good guy.