San Diego, CA
Male - 26 Years Old
I had/have a similar issue: I started just throwing myself into it, whether I wanted to really do it or not. I was just honest with myself, it's practice, you don't always have to flirt to hook-up, it can be flirting/talking just for the hell of it, there doesn't have to be a goal.
I think the biggest part of the whole thing just being comfortable knowing that you will be rejected often, that's where the confidence comes from, being okay with rejection. Make it funny, have an understanding that it''s going to happen, and it happens to everyone. Further, being humble when you're successful. Where are the girls of AP? They usually have more meaningful things to say on this topic.
- or just get blackout drunk in las vegas