I don't fault TorontoMatt for trying to avoid walking on eggshells in his reply (not that I'm saying anyone else is). That said, I don't know how this is something that can easily be fixed and if you are sure enough that a solution exists maybe you (Tmatt) could drop a tip or two. Going to a urologist is expensive and I don't have the cash to do it now.
TMatt has been put to sleep, at least on my PC. He strictly belongs to the Android phone now. With that said, yes I meant going to a uro. I've been once, the visit put me back about $200 just for a pat on the back. Now I don't know what's wrong with you, impotence is not something we go through at our ages. You would know better than me (and some doctors) as to whats causing it. Drugs have side-effects, you stop the drug you stop the side-effect(s). I assume the worst case scenario being you go on Viagra.
However, that's jumping the gun. You don't need a working dick until you have reason for it. And from what I remember reading, girls weren't climbing over you. So work on that aspect. I once gave dating advice and it got pretty heated. I'm in no way saying i'm a master dater, but no offense to people, but people are simple. Girls are simple. Depending where they grew up you can tell what their likes and dislikes are rather easily. Confidence, no one truly has confidence, not in everything. People are just good at hiding their lack of confidence, or displaying a fake form of it. Very rarely do girls have self-confidence. Hence why they look for a man with it. You build your confidence, or learn to display confidence and you will get them.
Since I'm bored I can type long. so here it is. I'm no longer the great looking guy I was 3-4 years ago. I put on weight, enough for a vain bastard like me to feel insecure. But not enough for me to be a recluse. My once great car has gotten stale, and my wallet isn't as deep as it once was. So needless to say, my ability to get girls has waned. Or at least that's what I thought. But the truth was my confidence left me and so did they. So I built it back up without losing the weight.
i don't think every girl is different. I think every age group is different. 16-21 (they are just looking for a guy to take charge and show them a good time. You need not ask them anything, you can tell them everything)
22-24(this is the worst age group, especially if they went to a 4 year state school. These educated ones are angry, they are simply angry because they were once 16-21 and now their eyes are opened. Tread carefully with this.)
25-30(if they are single, then they are easy and desperate, especially if their friends are getting married. They want to get married so you tell them what they want to hear. Doesn't matter how educated they are, they have now almost completely reverted to their teenage selves. They realized that their bitchiness in their early twenties got them nowhere so they made a 180. They are sweet, and if you want them you just have to show them that you can take care of them. Simple. Whether you can or cannot is irrelevant if you're just looking to bone. It's natural for them to be this way at that age, their "biological clock is ticking like this!" This is where you can finally be honest with someone, because they aren't dumb. they know life is hard, and you exchange stories on how hard it actually is. Just don't do that right off the bat. This is where you find the girl)
If I have to tell you what to say to them I will. Does it always work for me? No. The last time I failed with a girl was a year ago. I was in atlanta, I told her that after a baby is born in Toronto the doctor cleans them up and puts them on a little maple leaf before handing it to the mother. She didn't laugh even though her friends thought it was cute and laughed. She blew me off that night. 2 months later after seeing me around, and after her friend and I shared the same bed a few times, she has gone to tears in order for me to give her a chance.
That paragraph is there simply to show you that I say whatever the hell that I want to a girl. it either works or it doesn't Just do it with confidence and you'll be okay.
And some more rambling because I can.
Yesterday it was my friends birthday. Thursday night downtown toronto. I walk into a bar and order a hot chocolate and shook myself off as if it was -10 (yes i'm on Celsius now). Funny thing, there's no snow in Toronto which is uncharacteristically warm for this time a year. the girl closes to me says "how can you be cold in this warm whether?" So I flipped the switch and said "I'm from Atlanta and it only gets this cold in our freezers."
I didn't bang her that night, but it's 8:40 now and I have to start getting ready for our date
Prior to my post, people were being rather kind. I wonder if I incited a small riot