I have a sense of humor, but while on a dating site, I want the first message to be "serious." I have no clue whether the guy just wants his dick wet or if he actually wants to get to know me. I didnt go on a dating site to find someone to hook up with. I never replied to messages like that, that stuff definitely doesn't work for me. Maybe the ladies you messaged only wanted sex, which is why they replied. Most of the guys that did message me just wanted to hook up, so I don't waste my time talking to them from some "humorous" message.