[samantha83]

I know its long. But I need Help. Would you consider a pop kiss or a 1 second peck on the lips a first kiss for someone who has never kissed before ? Like if the girl pop kisses a guy she barely knows and there not dating or have any relationship whatsoever with each other and it doesn't mean anything And it doesn't involve tongue, does it still count as a first kiss ?

Well basically its like this: I went to a party with some friends and one of the guys there likes my best friend. However my best friend was not acting like she was interested in him. So the guy came onto me, hoping he can get with me. I thought he was cute and then he asked if he could kiss me but I felt forced into doing it. I was very uncomfortable and I didnt wanna do it. It was just a peck on the lips that lasted for like a second. I didn't get anything out of it. It was like kissing my little sister on the mouth. I didn't even know the guy and were not dating. I most likely will never see him again. Usually when I think of a first kiss, I think of something passionate that has meaning behind it. But what I did was nothing really. It has no meaning to me. And after that, I lost interest in him. I felt forced to do it. I didn't wanna do it, and after the peck he asked for tongue and I said no and walked off. Im assuming pecks dont count. Even 4 year olds give pecks on the lips. I even turned my face away real quick after I did it. I regret it so much. It would be a first kiss to me if it was with someone I really liked and had feelings for. What do you guys think? Should I count it or just forget about it? Advice please =( thanks !

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by lp670sv

I really can't believe this thread exists.

Really?! Whats wrong with it?! Im being dead serious here, and thats all you can say? fuckin asshole!

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by herestoyoufla

Haha, worth a shot. Hard to explain the weird shit that she does.

Whats weird?

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by LostAllways

TROLL!

Im not trolling moron! Im being serious. Just because my story isnt of interest to you, and doesnt sound typical, doesnt mean im trolling! So your calling me a liar!? Go get a life, or drop dead !

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by CallMeTroy

You kiss your little sister on the mouth?

Parents do the same with their kids. Whats the big deal? Jessica alba has been caught doing it with her daughter. Its not a damn makeout session.

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by Crackbaby

I'm outta here. This is just too much.

FINALLY! BYE BYE! Im happy your leaving! your idoticy has no purpose here anyway.

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by CallMeTroy

I'm not sure how common that is. My parents never did that, because they feel it's inappropriate, and I'd agree with that.

Its just a peck on the lips! Judy Garland has pics of her kissing Liz Minnelli on the mouth when she was a child! Its not a steamy hot porno kiss! Its just a peck! Grandparents do the same! There's nothing inappropriate about it, unless your thinking about it in a perverted way, which im guessing you are.

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by lp670sv

congratulations, you just answered your own question while simultaneously accusing someone of being a pervert for growing up in a different household dynamic than you.

I wasn't talking to you. Was I? Quit budding in into people's conversations and get a life! This has nothing to do with you!

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by Crackbaby

Definitely trolling.



BYE BYE!

Im not trolling. Im being serious. And why is your pathetic ass still in here? I was being serious until I read some of the rude nasty comments left by idiots such as your self!

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by Alex26

you really shouldn't have come to ap for advice like that, you'll get shot down by 99% of posts as is apparent here haha! But I'll give you an honest answer, don't worry about it. I had a situation like this before with my gf. she thought some dude who pinned her against a wall and pecked her on the lips was her first kiss. but if that was true, does that mean getting raped is losing your virginity? if you felt forced and didnt really want to, it dont matter. it's only a peck anyway, not really a kiss haha

Thank you! Your the only one outta this whole thread that really gave me a mature answer! Thank You! Finally someone with a brain outta brainless millions! I know now to never expect serious answers on Absolute Punk.

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by lp670sv

Get a life? You're a 20 year old who came to the internet to ask if her first kiss counted or not because you're still holding out for some romance style kiss-in-the-rain bullshit. That doesn't happen in real life. You wanted an answer, I have now given you 3 of them.

1) It doesn't fucking matter
2) It doesn't matter, but if it matters to you then only you can decide if it counts
3) IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER

Thank you i appreciate it!

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by Crackbaby

Rude nasty comments?
Sorry, I just had to post this:

http://www.absolutepunk.net/showthre...ost1186 80771

Well im being honest. You all deserved it for your shitty answers and making me look bad! You deserve my nasty comebacks! Because I didn't appreciate that! PAYBACK IS A BITCH!

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by lp670sv

Oh my god, what the fuck?

By the way, you may look at kissing and virginity as something to be tossed around like its nothing, Like most young people do, but seriously there are some people out there with morals and wanna make their first time special. Not just toss it around like its nothing. Virginity is a serious business. It comes with consequences. Girls are more emotional with this than guys. Its not like learning to ride a bike for the first time. Idk how your views are on love and sex, but to me, its very important! I rather be moral virgin freak, than some slut thats banged over 30 guys. I dont understand how you cannot see that.

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by Crackbaby

This is actually starting to be really fun!

I thought you left? WHY R U STILL HERE!? You really must have no life! But with a name like crack baby, I aint surprise.

[samantha83]

Originally Posted by lp670sv

you are 20 god damn years old, it's fine that you want to save yourself for a dude but coming here and asking if you kissing a dude counts is stupid. It doesn't change anything as far if you kissed him or not, it only counts so much as you let it and meanwhile you're acting like a child.

Why, thank you =)