This post makes you look like an asshole. Saying skank and slut just make you look like a masogonistic prick who would probably be an abusive partner in a relationship. It's okay to demand respect and assert dominance, but there are other/better way to do it than through physical altercations.
Oh my god, he's using hurtful words. Make him stop, so offensive to women. Seriously? Lol. If a woman respects herself as well as others, I'd never use those words to describe them. If a woman's vagina is as wide as her mouth is open, I have no reason to not use words like 'skank' and 'slut', as they both serve as fitting, accurate descriptions. Calling a disrespectful skank or a slut a 'woman' and giving her more respect than she deserves is basically telling her that it's okay to be the way she is. Sorry, I'm not okay with disrespectful dirty skanks and sluts being disrespectful dirty skanks and sluts. If you can't respect yourself and others, why the FUCK would I respect you? Oh I forgot, we're trying to impress 23 here by being the "mature" party and looking like a little bitch. This forum is a fucking safe haven for beta-males.
Slaps are an exception. I'd never slap a woman unless she 1) is a non-self respecting skank, 2) is a disrespectful skank, and 3) hits me first, and then I wouldn't even hit her back, I would merely slap her. She should be thankful I'm so merciful.
BTW, you said that no one is going to jail for slapping someone... I guarantee you that if you slapped a woman in the middle of a bar, the police would come and the man would be arrested... It sucks but typically in a domestic violence case, the man is going to go down even if the woman attacked him first... and even if he "only" responded with a slap
Police officers aren't idiots. If a woman tries to choke you, and then hits you and scratches you a couple times after spitting on you, all this following a verbal assault, I'm pretty sure the entire bar is vouching for the dude that slapped a hoe to put her in her place. Don't be ridiculous. The case you're describing is one with no witnesses. This bar was clearly full of witnesses.